My Baby’s Latch isn’t right— how do I know if they have a tongue tie??
By Anna Rademaker, IBCLC, LMT | Sacred Mama Denver
A baby with a tongue-tie (ankyloglossia) or lip-tie may show several signs, especially related to feeding challenges. And I urge- this not just a breastfeeding issue— airway, breathing, speech, digestion/ eating, facial formation, etc. Please see my related blog post.
Signs in the Baby:
Difficulty latching onto the breast or bottle, often popping off
Shallow latch that causes discomfort for the parent
Poor milk transfer leading to slow weight gain and frequent feeding sessions
Clicking sounds while feeding due to loss of suction
Excessive gassiness or reflux from swallowing air
Fatigue while feeding, falling asleep quickly but waking up hungry
Choking, coughing, or gagging while nursing or bottle-feeding
Milk dribbling from the mouth during feeding
Gumming or chewing on the nipple instead of sucking effectively
Signs in the Nursing Parent:
Nipple pain, cracks, or distortion after feeds
Engorgement, plugged ducts, or mastitis from poor milk removal
Decreased milk supply due to ineffective stimulation
Physical Signs in the Baby’s Mouth:
Tongue-tie: The tongue may have a heart-shaped or notched appearance when lifted, with limited movement, making it difficult to extend or raise.
Lip-tie: The upper lip may appear tight or stiff, unable to flange outward while feeding, with a thick band of tissue connecting the lip to the gum. Some babies also develop blisters on their lips from excessive friction.
Let’s Get You Set Up to Succeed
If you are concerned or have questions about your baby’s latch, if they might have a tongue tie or TOTS, please do not hesitate to reach out to me!!
As an IBCLC, I do not diagnose tongue, lip, or cheek ties—but I can assess how your baby’s mouth is functioning.I'm here to listen, observe, and help create a personalized plan that supports you and your little one.
If you're having challenges with nursing, bottle feeding, or if something just doesn’t feel right, I’m here to help. I’m especially passionate about identifying and supporting babies with TOTS (tethered oral tissues).
You and your baby deserve to feel supported, informed, and cared for.
If your baby’s oral function shows signs of restriction, I’ll guide you with suggestions and trusted referrals to providers who specialize in oral assessments and releases. Together, we’ll work toward better feeding, comfort, and connection.
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